Seems like you are in a little over your head. Let's take a step back and let the facts guide us where we need to go.
First, you need to see if the oil and coolant are mixing. This is bad, since water is a lousy lubricator. If they are truly mixing, then this needs to be addressed quickly before more damage occurs (main bearings, connecting rod bearings..other important things).
The coolant, when mixed with oil, will not retain its green color. It will look like a chocolate milkshake. Check the dipstick and see if the oil is "frothy". Draining the oil will also help determine this. If the two are mixing, then it is likely a head gasket. Blocks usually don't crack, so although its possible, it's unlikely.
If the oil looks like oil, then they're not mixing and you can move on to where else it's going. I had a coolant leak in my xterra (actually a couple of times -- 3 to be exact). The first was it was coming from the intake manifold gasket. It led to a pervasive coolant smell, especially when I was running the heat. The second was from a bad water pump. Now the thing about this, was that it was actually a bad fan clutch. The fan was CONSTANTLY running, and it ended up beating the water pump bearings up and causing it to leak. The 3rd (and current) leak is from the radiator.
Here's my point. Follow the evidence. Some guy who takes 1 look at something and automatically assumes it's X should be more thorough and careful in his diagnostics. "it's probably the water pump" is a vague statement. What SPECIFIC evidence has led him to believe that? Has he seen leaking from the weep hole? Is the system not generating pressure? Has it been properly purged? How does he know it's not a clogged heater core or line? What the thermostat properly replaced? (backwards?). Has he performed a pressure test in the coolant system to see if there is cylinder pressure that's jacking the coolant pressure up? Has he performed a dye test, where by you can see visible (external) leaks? Where is the smell coming from? (coolant is very stinky). Is it blowing white smoke? (burning)
These aren't rhetorical questions, they are questions to equip you to discuss the problem with your mechanic and make sure he's not just putting in parts. There is a big difference between a parts changer and a mechanic. A mechanic will spend time diagnosing and properly vetting theories until the culprit can be narrowed down to a single or perhaps couple options. Only then, does he replace parts.
If you have questions, ask away.
First, you need to see if the oil and coolant are mixing. This is bad, since water is a lousy lubricator. If they are truly mixing, then this needs to be addressed quickly before more damage occurs (main bearings, connecting rod bearings..other important things).
The coolant, when mixed with oil, will not retain its green color. It will look like a chocolate milkshake. Check the dipstick and see if the oil is "frothy". Draining the oil will also help determine this. If the two are mixing, then it is likely a head gasket. Blocks usually don't crack, so although its possible, it's unlikely.
If the oil looks like oil, then they're not mixing and you can move on to where else it's going. I had a coolant leak in my xterra (actually a couple of times -- 3 to be exact). The first was it was coming from the intake manifold gasket. It led to a pervasive coolant smell, especially when I was running the heat. The second was from a bad water pump. Now the thing about this, was that it was actually a bad fan clutch. The fan was CONSTANTLY running, and it ended up beating the water pump bearings up and causing it to leak. The 3rd (and current) leak is from the radiator.
Here's my point. Follow the evidence. Some guy who takes 1 look at something and automatically assumes it's X should be more thorough and careful in his diagnostics. "it's probably the water pump" is a vague statement. What SPECIFIC evidence has led him to believe that? Has he seen leaking from the weep hole? Is the system not generating pressure? Has it been properly purged? How does he know it's not a clogged heater core or line? What the thermostat properly replaced? (backwards?). Has he performed a pressure test in the coolant system to see if there is cylinder pressure that's jacking the coolant pressure up? Has he performed a dye test, where by you can see visible (external) leaks? Where is the smell coming from? (coolant is very stinky). Is it blowing white smoke? (burning)
These aren't rhetorical questions, they are questions to equip you to discuss the problem with your mechanic and make sure he's not just putting in parts. There is a big difference between a parts changer and a mechanic. A mechanic will spend time diagnosing and properly vetting theories until the culprit can be narrowed down to a single or perhaps couple options. Only then, does he replace parts.
If you have questions, ask away.