Dose anybody know if the xterra and the frontier caan use the same universal hitch on a 2000 are they the same????????????

Nope, different.

how much of a diffrence is there
its the only universal hitch i can find for a reasonable price everybody else wants between 200 to 300 $$$ and this one is 105.99

I bought a hitch online from hidden-hitch.com (in Georgia) for about $130.00 shipped to my door for my 2000 X SE

$120 here: http://www.suspensionconnection.com/cgi-bin/suscon/217.html

with the shackles that i got from ricer x how far of a ball drop do i need and also is i have the trans cooler and the tow haul on the gear shifter then i have the tow package right. they didnt tell me that when i bought it but i dont know.

well i bought the hitch and wiring harness from www.etrailer.com (http://www.etrailer.com) for about 155.90 with 99c shipping it was a draw-tie ill let yall know how it is

i recieved the hitch a couple of days ago but i still havent installed it yet it will be this weekend but it shouldnt take that long at all i looked at it and it will be real easy install.

yup, very easy to do. don't even need to jack the truck up. :)